This post is going to be about my grandparents.
It's going to be a word-full blog, so bare with it.
I perhaps majority of you have grandparents in the big family tree, right?
Also there are some who grow up without knowing how their grandparents look like.
Tho, I'm lucky to say that I've grown up to know how my grandparents look like.
So, let's talk about my Father's parents which are my paternal grandma and grandpa.
To my grandpa, I barely can think of any moment that we had together.
My grandpa passed away in 2000 when I was standard 1 due to heart attack, that time I don't even know what is death, I just know that he passed away thats it, I see my sister cried, I cried along which I don't know why. Going trough those ceremony, saw my father, uncles, aunties and also my grandma cried and I just stood there, carry on playing with my cousins.
Till then I just know that grandpa passed away.
The following years, I spent lots of quality time with my grandma. She only knows how to speak Hakka. Tho, I hardly talk to her because I'm not fluent in Hakka back then compare to now but I still try to communicate with her.
Anyhow, she tried to learn how to speak chinese so she could speak chinese to us youngster.
Btw, her traditional dishes were so delicious that I couldn't forget until now, ever since she passed away.
She have hearing problems, so we have to speak louder then only she could hear us.
There are lots of memories to recall about my grandma.
Truly, I miss her.
Now, to my Mother's parents which are my maternal grandmother and grandfather.
To my grandfather, again, I have barely any memories about him.
I just remember having Saturday dinner with him in the restaurant while he sitting on a wheel chair, eating so happily and also saying Happy Chinese New Year and get ang pao from him during CNY. *Feels kinda bad*
When I was a kid, he looked so fierce that I don't dare to talk to him and straight away run to my cousin's room to play.
Till when I grow up, he is suffering from sickness and actions starts to go back to a baby that he needs someone to do it for him.
Plus, he was so unconscious back then that I couldn't have more memories with him till the day he passed away.
Lastly, to my grandmother.
She is still alive and I'm very glad about that.
I remember, feeding her in the hospital..watching her eating happily which made me felt so warm inside. Saw her feeling embarrassed when I look at her V while the nurses were changing her diapers. :P
Looking at how cheerful and cute she is although she cannot remember well and sitting on a wheel chair.
Was so shocked and happy when I asked her to "Peace" to the camera, and she did it for the first time. *snap!*
To me, this is very precious.
There is once my uncle saw her wearing to watches on both hands and asked her if she could sell one to him..and she replied " You are my son, why do you have to buy from me? I could just give it to you, no big deal."
To hear and to see such lovely action towards the son and it once touches me. :)
I cherish every moment with her, wish to kiss her cheek every year :)
Q: So, what about your Grandparents? Notice them?
Q: So, what about your Grandparents? Notice them?
bye.
xoxo
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