130413 - Saying "Sorry"

In the pass few years. I've realize that saying "Sorry" is truly very important.

I've learn to say "Sorry" if I did wrong. I still remember that I lost my best friend just because when the misunderstanding appeared in between us that caused arguements we both didn't apologize and solve the problem. :( -how sad-

Oh well and I also realize that I'm the type of person who will say "Sorry" first even though I'm not the one who cause the argument or misunderstanding. -felt so stupid :/-

Fyi, I'm also the type of person who forgive people easily and cannot angry at a particular person for very long, it might just last for a day if it's serious.

So..somehow this pissed me off hahahahaha I feel so useless..as in so NO temper :/

Okay, cut the crap! Back to the topic :D

In life, we do have arguments or misunderstanding between Parents, Siblings, Friends, Partner or anyone.

So do any of you realize that when one argument appears that is not just one side's fault?

It involves everyone who appeared in the argument. kay?

So, make clear of your problem and make a step to say "Sorry".

I have seen many in life that doesn't want to take a leap to say "Sorry", and wanting the others to bow down to them and apologize first.

Okay, I've realize that some girls in relationships always expect the guys to say "Sorry" first whenever an argument appears. Eventhough that she is the one who did the mistake.

But, this isn't fair! If the guy is wrong, he apologize. If the girl is wrong, she apologize.

As a girl, is not good to do so. As time goes by, if the guy constantly do so, he will get tired and if things get worst..the relationship will break :X

We have to be clear and analyze, do not wait for the others to bow down to apologize first.

Somehow saying "Sorry" isn't that shameful, isn't it?

Tho, after we apologize we have to analyze the problem and solve it. 

If we do not solve the problem, it will once appear again.. It will be tragic -Nuuuuuuu-

Nontheless, say what you feel, bring out your problems and share with someone you trust, and always filter your words before you speak to avoid unnecessary arguements or misunderstanding. Okay?

Keep in mind, saying "Sorry" and "Thank you" is magical.

So do any of you lost anything just because you did not make a move to say "Sorry" first? Mind sharing it to me? :)